International Adjustments

Nidhi Shah, left, current president, Ahmad Al-Saygh, newly elected president, Wiwi Sanusi Tjandra, newly elected vice president and Sarini Mapalagama, current vice president of ISC, talk about creating a more diverse committee for next year's International Student Council, Tuesday, March 8, at the ISC Office in Memorial Union.

By Karuna Ang, karuna.ang@iowastatedaily.com

Coming to America might be a cultural shock to many international students, but Ashvin Sudhaharan, junior in open-option liberal arts and sciences and events coordinator of the International Students Council, said he didn’t experience any cultural shock.

Sudhaharan grew up in Kuala Lumpur, a bustling city in Malaysia.

“It’s very westernized,” he said of life in Kuala Lumpur. “Everything is fast paced and quick.”

Sudhaharan said he thinks the pace in Ames is slower than Kuala Lumpur. Many students find life in Ames is peaceful, and some are used to the quick pace and exciting lives they had.

However, not many students are as lucky as Sudhaharan, who didn’t face any cultural shock.

“Students find it different, especially if they are from the Asian countries where they have more conservative cultures,” said Danny Eshcol, a previous coordinator for international students’ orientation.

They go through cultural transitions, he said. There are many cultures in the world, and all of these cultures have their own set of values and traditions: language, television shows, food, music, weather, communicating with other people – all are things that people find different from their own culture when compared to the American culture. It takes patience and time for one to be able to feel fully comfortable in a different environment, especially when they’ve been in their own culture for the past 18 years of their life.

However, Sudhaharan said the local people help a lot as the international students are going through the changes.

“People are really friendly in Ames,” Sudhaharan said. “I didn’t have much problem adjusting and adapting to the lifestyle here.”

Common Problems:

Sudhaharan said Iowa weather was something he had to adjust to. International students should be aware that winter in Iowa can get very cold. Students from tropical countries where it rarely gets below 80 degrees, like Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia or Thailand, might have trouble adjusting to the cold winters in Iowa.

Researching beforehand about the types of clothes suitable for the weather is highly important. International students can also seek help from multicultural associations, such as the ISU Bangladeshi Community, Indian Students’ Association, Japanese Association and many more. The International Students and Scholars Office usually plays a part in helping incoming students contact associations of their nations, in case any questions arise.

It would be the best option for students to ask their fellow countrymen questions regarding the weather, as they came from the same environment and would have a better understanding of what future problems incoming students might face.

Another problem students might face while studying abroad is a language barrier.

“Sometimes [international students] understand the materials in class,” Sudhaharan said. “But the language becomes the obstacle for them.”

“If you think of Chinese students or Indian students, they are not as outgoing as Americans are,” Eshcol said. “Some of them feel insecure about their language skills.”

“Coffee, Tea and English” is a program international students can join in order to improve their English language skills. International students have the opportunity to meet with volunteer native English speakers. This is also a good time for international students to get to know more about American culture.

The International Students and Scholars Office offers a conversational English program. International students will be matched up with American volunteers. Partners will meet for one hour per week in a one-on-one setting. Other than improving their language skills and sharing cultures, the program also aims to develop friendship among participants.

Other than that, there are also friendship partner programs on campus that pair up international students with Americans so that international students can practice speaking English.

Making new friends is another stage international students have to go through. “Everybody coming to college faces the challenge of making friends,” Eshcol said.

It makes it harder for international students as they are leaving their friends behind, Sudhaharan said.

These are also the times students will feel homesick. Being in a different environment can sometimes be hard for international students, as they are far away from the things that they are used to.

Eshcol said it is very important to make sure students make a routine of the things they are interested in, in the culture they are engaging.

“Join toward your interest or your own culture,” Sudhaharan said.

It makes it easier for international students to make new friends when they have something in common.

When students feel like they are alone and helpless, they must remind themselves they are in a different country, Eshcol said. Sometimes students can feel helpless and lonely when they first arrive in a different country. It would make the transition easier for them if they expect difficulties before coming to the United States and, through those difficulties, maintain a positive attitude.

International students are not only learning about a new culture, but when they immerse themselves in another culture, they learn about their own culture as well, Eshcol said.

“Students will learn things they haven’t thought about their own culture, and they learn more about their background,” he said.

There are many organizations that can help students feel at home.

“The International Students Council always welcomes international students to drop by and ask us questions,” Sudhaharan said.

“We advise students on their I-20 documents,” he said. “We network students to other international students from different countries as well.”

Other than that, ISC provides a place for students to promote their own culture. Students can also get to know the locals because not all ISC members are international students, Sudhaharan said. ISC also serves as a platform of communication for all members of Iowa State, especially for the students, faculty and staff.

Organizations that aim to help international students:

Bridges International is a student organization that helps international students in getting accustomed to the new culture through service activities, social networking opportunities and spiritual resources. Staff members of the organizations know how to deal with the problems that international students face as they have traveled, lived, studied and worked abroad. These staff members have experienced culture shock while they were abroad as well. As they’ve gone through the same experience, they understand the challenges that international students face while being in a foreign country.

Students can learn more about the organization at www.iowastate.bridgesinternational.com/.

American Culture Club, formerly known as American Culture Acclimation Society, hopes to help encourage interaction between international students and Americans through activities. The club provides useful information about surviving in Ames, such as places to buy textbooks, how to buy a car and introduces students to the driving laws in America. The club encourages discussions between international students and Americans, and one of its responsibilities is to help facilitate those discussions.

To learn more about the club, visit www.stuorg.iastate.edu/acas/.

International Friendship Connection, sponsored by Cornerstone Church of Ames, seeks to serve and support international students, scholars and their families. IFC has hosted many events that help connect international and American friends together. Fusion, a monthly event which is on the first Friday of each month, invites students to meet together to sing worship songs, learn more about God, play games and have fun.

IFC also has several yearly events, including Independence Day Celebration, Hayride and Farm Visit, Winter Getaway Camp and Spring Break trips. Jack Owens started IFC in 1996 after his own experience of being a foreigner in South Korea. He remembered the support and understanding that he received from the locals while he was adapting to the new culture. He started IFC so that he could do the same for others who are going through a similar experience.

For more information, visit the website at www.ifcinfo.com.

Sopot, Poland

A young boy watches as people walk by while enjoying his lunch at a pizza shop outdoors in Sopot.

As I board on the plane and leave for Sopot, Poland, I was excited and scared. Excited, because I was about to spend a month in Europe. Scared, because I had no experience in Polish nor the culture in Poland.

I arrived in Sopot, seven hours later than planned. Through pure luck, I managed to find my ride to the hotel that I was staying. I walked about the streets to get to Spatif – a bar, for a opening party of a photo exhibition. I took the route near the Baltic Sea, it was quiet, left for some joggers who enjoyed the cool evening breeze.

The streets of Sopot were lively. Filled with people walking their dogs, young people out early for a drink or two, locals finishing up their meals at the outdoor patios, and people enjoying their cigarettes while striking up conversation with another stranger.

As the week went on, I spent more time exploring the cafes and grocery stores. Each cafe is unique in its own way. Tucked in one corner of the street was a rather modern cafe, with natural light coming in from the huge windows. A lively and what seems to me to be pop music, played in the background. Espresso is different in Europe. I got a tiny cup of espresso with a thick layer of foam on top of it. That, was true Espresso. With it, came a piece of chocolate and a glass of water. I observed the locals sitting next to me for a bit, and like a little child, I followed what they did. I drank my Espresso and then I ate my piece of chocolate.

I was introduced to this cozy, warm-looking cafe hidden in a little valley near the Post Office. It wasn’t obvious to me that it was a cafe. There wasn’t any sign of it being a cafe. I headed in and was delightfully surprised by this little cafe. It was dark, with minimal lighting in one part of the cafe. The furniture in the cafe seems to me to be a mismatched collection. Hidden in one corder was two different colored sofas and mismatching pillows. My friends and I ventured into the other half of the cafe. We sat near the huge window. I was truly enjoying the artsy atmosphere in Gdańsk.

Every turn I took I would hear live music coming from street performers. Everywhere I looked, I could find either a modern looking cafe, or an old cafe stuffed with vintage furnitures, bookshelves, and mismatching coffee cups. With the little Polish that I know, I managed to get smiles from the waitresses or cashiers. People were friendly. And even though I felt like I was the only Asian in town, I felt at home immediately.

View gallery of Poland here.